The grief comes in waves. Some days are good. Some days it knocks me on my ass.
I remember the laughs, the love and the joy we shared. At the same time, I’m inundated with the pain of loosing you.
There are times when I just want you to come home. I want to see your smile one more time. I want to hear your laugh. I want to wrap my legs around you on the motorcycle as we ride free down the highway. Your head rested on me as you sleep. Our seemingly endless conversations. The list goes on.
I am hit head on with the finality of your death. Your headstone has an end date. The realization of that hit me like a freight train recently. Your life is done.
Tears fill my eyes. They run silently down my face as I still struggle to accept the reality.
You have a new home now. You are with The Father. You are with your bamaw. I know that should bring me peace.
I fight with my emotions at times. I feel as if I’m being selfish wanting you back. I cry for more time. The truth is hard. I only saw the surface of the demons you battled. I know you fought a hard diligent cumbersome battle.
I am not angry. I struggle to understand why such a beautiful soul was daunted and tortured with such a heavy burden. It saddens me.
Fly high my angel. Soar in the sun and ride like the wind. You are my true love. Your time was up. I see you everywhere.
Knowing you changed me. Loving you moved me. Grieving you is teaching me.